Early last week I was in Prachinburi, two and half hours’ drive to the east of Bangkok, near Cambodia. It is a vast, elegant province of rice fields and quiet communities in which it was easy to imagine that neighbors might have known neighbors for generations.
We made our way back towards Bangkok at the end of the day, driving past night markets full of food and families, circles of children hatching schemes, and people gathered outdoors to watch the evening traffic and gossip.
I am now, more than two years into our stay in Thailand, familiar with this sensation of the day closing under the hazy orange glow of a tropical sun. It is a time of day that feels the same, I would imagine, in many parts of the world. A time when we slow down and turn our thoughts toward more personal pursuits.
Driving across the country on my return from Prachinburi, I felt the simultaneous sense of newness and familiarity that comes on so often here. There is a balance in our lives these days that allows us to hold tight to our traditions while embracing something entirely new. I feel it as I watch Frank at the stovetop making laab moo with as much ease as he once assembled a turkey sandwich.
These experiences have become a fundamental part of who we are. I imagine that years from now, pieces of this life we lived in Thailand will be an inextricable part of the lives of our children as well. They will never think twice when they smell the familiar aroma of lemongrass and mint while Frank makes laab.
Experiencing a different culture, whether for a few days or months or years, makes you understand that there are more things in common in all our lives than different. We all let down our guard a bit as the light in the sky shifts to dusk.
We all pick up bits and pieces from everyday experience and assemble them into our life’s story.
- 1 pound (460g) ground pork
- 1 cup cilantro leaves
- 2 green onions (scallions)
- 15 mint leaves
- 2 stalks lemongrass, just the bottom 2 inches, outer leaves removed and discarded
- 3 kaffir lime leaves, very thinly sliced
- ½ a whole shallot, finely chopped
- 1 Tablespoon toasted rice powder
- 1 Tablespoon fish sauce
- juice squeezed from 1 and ½ limes
- ½ teaspoon crushed red pepper (adjust for preferred spice)
- 1 cup cooked white rice
- 4 fried eggs
- lime wedges
- Transfer the pork to a medium saucepan or wok. Heat the pan, with the pork, slowly over medium heat until the pork begins to sizzle. Cook the pork, stirring to break it up into small pieces, until just cooked through, 8-10 minutes. Transfer to a mixing bowl and allow to cool.
- Meanwhile, finely chop the cilantro, green onions, and mint. Thinly slice the lemongrass stalks. Add the herbs to the pork. Add the kaffir lime leaves, shallot, toasted rice powder, fish sauce, and lime juice. Stir to combine. Add crushed red pepper, to taste, and stir.
- Serve immediately with rice, a fried egg, and extra lime wedges.
- Combine the mint, kaffir lime leaves and cilantro and chop until very fine. Set aside.
- In a nonstick skillet, cook chicken with 1 Tbsp. water over medium heat. As the chicken cooks, break it apart with a spatula so that it stays in small pieces. Keep the chicken cooking slowly, reducing the heat if it begins to brown. When the chicken is cooked through and still moist (there should be moisture in the bottom of the pan), remove it from heat.
- Add all remaining ingredients to the chicken, including the finely chopped herbs, and mix well. Serve immediately, with sticky rice.










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Children?
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Hahaha – don’t get any ideas, Barbara. (Note to self: edit all blog posts for subtext related to offspring before they reach the eyes of family members.)
Since it’s called “salad”, it totally counts as health food… right? (I’m going to totally pretend there isn’t a big ol’ fried egg sitting on top, even though that’s totally the reason I want to make this dish in the first place.)

Your posts always make me wish I could hop on a plane and visit Thailand, and this one is no exception. Guess I’ll just have to start saving up, and make some of this salad in the meantime.
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Plan a trip to Thailand, Isabelle! Is your honeymoon booked?
It always makes me smile at the enormous variety of dishes that are called “salads” in Thai. They’ve definitely expanded way beyond the lettuce variety that we classify in that way. It definitely means that it can be classified as health food, fried egg, white rice, and all.
What a lovely post Jess and so very true. Now if only I could get my man into the kitchen making laab. I know he can do it because we learned in Thailand on our honeymoon!
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So true! I bet he’s got a whole menu of Thai food he can make now! Time to put him to work.
Jess your writing is so beautiful! This sounds delicious – I bet my husband would like it (he spent some time in Thailand a few years ago). Now if only I could get him to make it for me : )
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Ashley – your husband spent time in Thailand? That’s so fun! He definitely must have had this then – it would be a hard dish to miss out on. You should put his skills to work!
This sounds so good. I have not been able to get enough Asian food lately. Pinning this.
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The longer I live here, the more I crave Asian food, Debra. I can’t get enough! This salad is a definite favorite though – so refreshing with all those herbs.
This made me so happy Jess! You said it perfectly! “You got baby???”
Lol – have you been hanging out with Khun Oi?
Your words let me experience Thailand vicariously. Thank you.
The larb looks delicious!
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Thank you, Joyti – that’s so kind, and means a lot coming from you! It’s such a beautiful place – I feel so lucky to be here.
Beautiful, heartfelt post! And that looks DELICIOUS. What a perfectly fried egg:-)
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Thanks, Rachel! Frying eggs for pictures is not my favorite food challenge, but I think I’m slowly starting to get the hang of it!
What a beautiful post with equally gorgeous images. Inspiring.
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GORGEOUS post Jess. And the salad is just as lovely. We went out for Thai last night and I had pad thai – it’s my favorite dish! Your fried eggs are perfect by the way!
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I can never resist pad thai, Sally! You would think after living here for so long, I would be tired of it, but I crave it all the more!
What an incredibly lovely post, Jess. I wish I could travel more. I’ve only been out of the country (besides Canada) once…when we visited my sister’s family in Cairo for 2 weeks. What an incredible experience, that continues to pop up in our lives almost daily. I can only imagine how your time in Thailand will influence yours in the future. Beautiful salad, too – wish I had a bowl right now!
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Brenda – I’ve wondered often about Cairo – what a unique place that must be. There so much out there to explore! I feel so blessed for every minute of this experience we’re having in Thailand. It’s so much fun, but does make me appreciate home all the more.
I love laab! And you are right about pieces of your life now becoming a part of your children’s lives too — I didn’t visit Thailand until I was 18, but the smell and taste of khao man gai, tom yum and even jook are inextricable parts of my childhood memories, thanks to my parents.
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Anjali – I love to hear that. What a beautiful way to be exposed to a place long before you visit in person – through food, and I would imagine, through your parents’ stories.